23 Jun How to Choose Your First Vibrator
Picking out your first vibrator can be daunting. There are many different styles, materials, colors, sizes and functions – and it seems like you’re just supposed to somehow know what you want and what will work well for you. It seems like a daunting task, we know! However, don’t let that discourage you – it’s not as difficult as it seems, and it can actually be really fun and exciting once you get pointed in the right direction. Lucky for you, that’s exactly what we intend to do with this month’s blog post about how to pick out your first vibrator.
When choosing your first vibe, a lot depends on which part of your body you want to stimulate. Do you want clitoral stimulation only? Penetration? Perhaps you want a dual stimulator, like a rabbit, for simultaneous penetration and clitoral stimulation? Making a decision on this front will narrow the field right off the bat!
Here are some good things to consider that will help you determine what you’re looking for in your first vibrator.
1. What Type of Stimulation
Understanding which types of stimulation you prefer is usually a good place to start. Do you like direct and pinpoint stimulation, more broad stimulation, or the option for either? Pressure or a light touch? Are you pretty sensitive, or do you crave a lot of stimulation at once? It’s okay if you’re not sure about these questions, as some vibes have a whole range of vibration intensities and options that won’t lock you into just one way of using them. Besides, you’ll learn more about what you like once you find a good toy to experiment with.
2. What Type of Material
Some shops still carry toys made of questionable and potentially unsafe materials — but not us. By shopping with us, you’ll know that whatever toy you choose will be body-safe and phthalate-free. Without all the “mystery meat” materials clogging up our inventory, there are two non-porous vibrator materials to choose between: plastic and silicone. Plastic is hard and smooth; it transmits vibrations very well and provides excellent pressure if you want it. Silicone is a softer, more plush material. However, different manufacturers utilize silicone in different ways. Fun Factory toys, for instance, are quite squishy. Silicone-coated toys from LELO or PicoBong are velvety but tend to be quite rigid.
3. What’s Your Budget
Your budget will probably come into play early on in your search for the right vibe. Like many things, you usually get what you pay for when it comes to sex toys. Quality products may cost a little bit more, but will last much longer and are usually much better made. That’s not to say you have to rush out and buy the most expensive vibrator in the store on your first foray into toys, but it is worth keeping in mind.
The type of toy can also factor into the cost. In general, battery-operated toys are cheaper than rechargeable ones, but they also require you to purchase batteries often. On the other hand, rechargeable toys may cost more upfront, but could save you money in the long-run. How you plan to use it (and how often) should factor into this component of the decision making process.
4. Choose Your Size & style
Almost all vibrators can be used for clitoral stimulation, so if that’s what you’re after, there is a lot of range in terms of size, shape, and power source. There’s everything from bullet vibrators that are as small as a container of lip balm, all the way to wands that measure well over a foot in size.
Obviously, some of these are more discreet than others! If you’re looking for a vibe that can blend into its surroundings, consider something like the LELO Mia 2 (it’s USB rechargeable and can pass as a thumb drive).
Mini vibes are a popular choice for beginners because they are small, discreet, and easy to hold. Corded bullets are especially simple to operate, as you control vibrations using the power pack.
Want recommendations? A good, dependable mid-range mini vibe is the PicoBong Ako.
5. Sensation
Some toys are exceptional at enhancing certain masturbation techniques. For instance, if you like rubbing your clitoris with your finger, there are vibes that can add buzz to your usual routine. For example, finger vibes actually strap to your fingers for maximum stimulation.
If you know what kind of sensation you enjoy against your clitoris, there are some unique vibes to consider. If you like flickering or tapping, the Noje Quiver offers a multitude of exciting sensations. Prefer a gentle yet highly arousing back and forth motion? Try the Eroscillator 2 Plus. If you like mild suction and oral sex, consider the Rose Toy from Inya. Want your clit to be surrounded on both sides? The Rabbit Bullet can do that.
Wands are a special category of vibrator. These powerful clitoral toys are characterized by their shape, which was originally meant to help relieve back and neck pain. Today, they are used for pleasure as well, they vary in size tremendously, and they have different power sources. Some, like the Magic Wand Rechargeable and We-Vibe Wand have large heads and strong vibrations that provide deep, penetrating stimulation on a large surface area, which some people love. Others, like the Mystic Wand and Shibari Mini Halo, are smaller but just as powerful. One perk about wands is that many can accommodate attachments, turning them from solely clitoral vibes into insertable and dual stimulation ones.
Trust Your Eyes!
There’s just one final factor you should consider when choosing your first vibrator: aesthetics! Your sense of style will probably guide you anyway when you’re browsing our shop, and be sure to listen to it! You’ll be much more likely to use a toy that you find visually appealing.
Still feeling boggled? Talk to our team. We’re experts in these products, and we’re always happy to help you find the right toys, novelties, lingerie, and accessories to help you maximize your sex-life. Just stop in at The Pink Boxxe and let us help you get started!